DR ARCHANA'S BLOG

Study these data and contemplate as to why the society does not want a female child . Contemplate as to how these problems can be dealt with . Contemplate as to how do we save a female fetus . Contemplate as to will punishing the doctors for clerical mistakes improve the sex ratio of female birth . Contemplate will pushing the desperate parents to seek help from the quacks and mediators in search of an unlawful procedure ensure the safety of the female child and the mother herself . By following this principle of tightening the noose on doctors for a crime for which the societal norms are responsible aren't we propagating policies which will further increase the already high Maternal Mortality Rate and will further endanger the lives of the females .  Now study Nirbhaya's case for which a fast track court was made ... Pay attention to these news clippings ..... What do we understand from these clippings and these incidences

Guided by the NGO's; PCPNDT was Brought in force to save the girl child Court guided the gov ernment to use it For the good purpose of saving the girl child   But it failed to meet the purpose Instead, made the genuine doctors nervous For the female fetuses were still being aborted And the Government’s plans were appallingly being thwarted A category that had now emerged was that of negotiators In between the parents and quacks, the Dais served as mediators To them the distraught parents were guided Where  Illegal abortion facilities were enduringly being provided The abortions of  ill -fated  female fetuses continued unabated  With the Parents giving in to the mess that the society had  created  The pills were now  provided over the counter by the unqualified By all the chemists and druggists which was all the more unjustified They had absolutely no knowledge of the myriad of complications And the money involved had become their bigg

Did I ever repent of not having an ambition in  life ? No ...... For I seemed to have so many ambitions all the time ....... I was and am an artist at heart ...... Maybe I can call myself an experimenter ...... I get bored of doing the same job repeatedly and just cannot follow a fixed routine ........ I am happy that God has blessed me with many a hobbies ...... I switch from being a mother to being a doctor ,to being a photographer ,to being a blogger ,a writer ,a poet ,a de signer ,an interior decorator to so many other things .......... Had I followed passionately my profession ;I would have missed on so many other things ........ And for that i have to thank Jai who let me follow my heart as he went on tirelessly earning and catering to the family's monetary needs which he relished ; while I could relish being a mother ,an architect ,a planner ,a manager in my initial years and later I could pursue my interests and hobbies without ever getting a feel of not reaching

जो आत्मबल द्वारा अर्जित दौलत पर विशवास रख पाओगे तो दुःख क्लेश द्वेष को परे रख तृप्त हो जाओगे जो दगा देके कमा पाने से बच पाओगे तो आशीर्वाद ,विश्वास और इज्ज़त कमा जाओगे जो ईमान धरम अपना गिरवी रख जाओगे तो परतंत्र रह , क्या सुखी रह पाओगे स्वतंत्रता का आनंद भी तो तभी उठा पाओगे जब जरूरतमंदों को आसरा दे , ख़ुशी दे जाओगे   शांत चित्त मन से सफलता को जो अपनाओगे तो जीवन के रंगों का आनंद सही मायनों में ले पाओगे गैरों को श्रेय देते हुए जो अपनी तरक्की पर न इतराओगे   तो अंतिम यात्रा पर भी इक मुस्कान लिए जा पाओगे अर्चना टंडन 

हम थे आधे अधूरे मिल कर हुए थे पूरे कुछ मैं थी कुछ तुम थे फिर मिलकर हुए हम थे अधूरे हम कुछ पूर्ण होने का विश्वास लिए जीवन का सफ़र अनवरत तय करते गए कभी उलझते कभी सुलझते कदम से कदम मिला चल दिए  समय ने भी मुश्किलों को परे हटा दिया बेचैनियों को हौले हौले चैन में तब्दील कर  दिया जीवन की दौड़ जैसे फिर अपने आगोश में भर रही थी आत्मा भी तृप्त हो स्पंदन महसूस कर रही थी वक़्त  गुजरा और आत्मविश्वास और प्रबल हुआ हौले हौले उसने नाउम्मीदी को उम्मीद में  तब्दील किया कुछ पाने कुछ कर गुजरने की आस में चलते रहे हम एक दूसरे को पाकर और सबल हुए थे हम -- अर्चना टंडन  

ऋ ग्वेद सामवेद यजुर्वेद पढ़ने का क्या है फायदा , यदि किसी की वेदना पढ़ना तुझे न आया तरक्की पे तरक्की पा, कमाने का ये कैसा कायदा कि माता-पिता की सेवा भुला सांसारिक चकाचौंध ने तुझे भरमाया झोपड़ों से निकलकर महलों में रहना है गर तरक्की की निशानी तो फिर शामिल कर उन्हें भी और भुला दे उनकी सारी परेशानी अपनी जीवन गाथा में उन्हें भी आदर पूर्वक शामिल कर जिन्होंने तेरे लिए दे दीं अपने असंख्य  सपनों की कुरबानी शीर्ष पर उनके संतोष को रख जो अमूल्य सुकून तू पाएगा उसी के सहारे अपनी संतति को एक अमूल्य विरासत दे जाएगा जा और सह्वेदना का रंग भर तू अपना देवत्व जगा  और उत्थान की चरम सीमा को छू अपना परचम लहरा अर्चना टंडन