Aim For Tranquility Through Discourse



Nip the controversy and don't let it lead the relations to devastation 
Though  the inner godly self will  prevent you from retaliation
But silence for long and avoiding the discussion 
Will kill the feelings and promote dissatisfaction









Continued silence slowly gives birth to depression
In long run it promotes scheming and dissatisfaction 
The ignited flame of agony is then reflected in the conversations
And multiplies the misunderstandings without harbouring such intentions 


Believe that all are different and have their limitations 
Their behavior is governed at times by their own frustrations 
Silence loses it's value if not followed by timely  appropriate discussions 
And premature discussions without timely silence spoils the relations 










Archana Tandon  


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